觉得做人累了就看看.....

学会沉默　　
有时候，你被人误解，你不想争辩，所以选择沈默。本来就不是所有的人都得了解你，因此你认为不必对全世界喊话。却也有时候，你被最爱的人误解，你难过到不想争辩，也只有选择沈默。全世界都可以不懂你，但他应该懂，若他竟然不能懂，还有什么话可说?那么，不想说话，就不说吧，在多说无益的时候，也许沈默就是最好的解释。




至少平静　　
在你跌入人生谷底的时候，你身旁所有的人都告诉你：要坚强，而且要快乐。坚强是绝对需要的，但是快乐？在这种情形下，恐怕是太为难你了。毕竟，谁能在跌得头破血流的时候还觉得高兴？但是至少可以做 到平静。平静地看待这件事，平静地把其他该处理的事处理好。平静，没有快乐，也没有不快乐。




不要想如果当初　　
人生是一条有无限多岔口的长路，永远在不停地做选择。如果只是选择吃炒面或炒饭，影响似乎不大，但选择读什么科系、做什么工作、结婚或不结婚、要不要有孩子，每一个选择都影响深远，而不同的选择也必定造就完全不一样的人生。生命中不可承受之情，就在于人生没有重来 的机会啊。如果当初如何如何，现在就不会怎样怎样。。。这种充满怅然的喃喃自语，还是别再多说了吧。每一个岔口的选择其实没有真正的好与坏，只要把人生看 成是自己。独一无二的创作，就不会频频回首如果当初做了不一样的选择。




保持单纯　　
因为思虑过多，所以常会把自己的人生复杂化了。明明是活在现在，却总是念念不忘着过去，又忧心忡忡着未来；坚持携带着过去、未来与现在同行，你的人 生当然只有一片拖泥带水。而单纯是一种恩宠状态。单纯地以皮肤感受天气的变化，单纯地以鼻腔品尝雨后的青草香，单纯地以眼睛统摄远山近景如一幅画。单纯地活在当下。而当下其实无所谓是非真假。既然没有是非，就不必思虑；没有真假，就无须念念不忘又忧心忡忡。无是非真 假，不就像在做梦一样了吗?是呀，就单纯地把你的人生当成梦境去执行吧。




控制情绪别浪费了
今天的你，是不开心的你，因为有人在言语间刺伤了你。你不喜欢吵架，所以你离开；可是你只是离开了那，却没有离开被那人伤害的情境，因此你愈想愈生气。愈有气，你就愈没有力气去理会别的事情，许多更该用心去做去想去处理的事件，就在你漫天漫地的心烦意乱之中，被轻忽被漠视被省略了。因为，你只是一心一意地在生气。在情绪上做文章，这是对自己的浪费，而且是很坏的浪费。毕竟，生气也是要花力气的，而且生气一定伤元气。所以，聪明如你，别让情绪控制了你，当你又要生气之 前，不妨轻声地提醒自己一句：“别浪费了。”




悄悄悄悄地回归平静　　
曾经有一段时间，你心情低落，甚至懒得拉开窗帘，看着窗外的阳光。因此你当然也忘了去看看，窗台上那一盆每天都需要喝水的百合花。如此不知过了多久，总算有一天，你度过了心情的低潮，同时也想起了你的百合。天啊，可怜的花，它还活着吗？你战战兢兢地拉开窗帘，却见它迎风招摇，花颜可掬。原来在过去的这段日子里，你虽然忘了喂它喝水，老天却没忘了以雨露眷顾它呢。许多事物悄悄地在你的视线之外进行，而且悄悄地安排好了它们自己。天生万物，天养万 物，一切其实无须担心。。。
你只要做的就是做好自己，不留任何遗憾。。。足矣！！！！








I know, I know, I've been lazeh to update my blog.
But this is really good.
HAahahahahaa.
Okie.

人，长得漂亮不如活的漂亮

1.你以为最酸的感觉是吃醋吗？不是，最酸的感觉是没权吃醋。

2.低头要有勇气，抬头要有底气。

3.上天决定了谁是你的亲戚，幸运的是在选择朋友方面它给你留了余地。

4.人生就像一杯茶，不会苦一辈子，但总会苦一阵子。

5.傻与不傻，要看你会不会装傻。

6.女人用友情来拒绝爱情，男人用友情来换取爱情。

7.幸福是可以通过学习来获得的，尽管它不是我们的母语。

8.不要见一个爱一个，爱的太多，你的爱就要贬值。

9.想完全了解一个男人，最好别做他的恋人，而做他的朋友。

10.朋友就是把你看透了，还能喜欢你的人

11.当我们搬开别人架下的绊脚石时，也许恰恰是在为自己铺路。

12.痛苦来临时不要总问：“为什么偏偏是我？”因为快乐降临时你可没有问过这个问题。

13.如果说我懂的道理比别人多一点，那是因为我犯的错误比别人多一点。

14.不是每句“对不起”，都能换来“没关系”。

15.世界上只有想不通的人，没有走不通的路。

16.地球是运动的，一个人不会永远处在倒霉的位置。

17.走的最急的是最美的景色，伤的最深的是最真的感情。

18.在事实面前，我们的想象力越发达，后果就越不堪设想。

19.当别人开始说你是疯子的时候，你离成功就不远了……

20.你永远看不见我眼里的泪，因为你不在时我才会哭泣。

21.时间就像一张网，你撒在哪里，你的收获就在哪里。

22.如果我能够看到自己的背影，我想它一定很忧伤，因为我把快乐都留在了前面。

23.理想和现实总是有差距的，幸好还有差距，不然，谁还稀罕理想？

24.说有上辈子的人是在骗自己；说有下辈子的人是在骗别人。

25.任何人都可以变得狠毒，只要你尝试过嫉妒。旗山网

26.常常告诫自己不要在一棵树上吊死，结果……在树林里迷路了。

27.爱情就像攥在手里的沙子，攥的越紧，流失的越快。

28.人生有两大悲剧：一个是得不到想要的东西，另一个是得到了不想要的东西。

29.成熟不是心变老，而是眼泪在眼里打转却还保持微笑。

30.问候不一定要郑重其事，但一定要真诚感人。

31.做与不做的最大区别是：后者拥有对前者的评论权。

32.人，长得漂亮不如活的漂亮。旗山论坛

33.有些事，明知是错的，也要去坚持，因为不甘心；有些人，明知是爱的，也要去放弃，因为没有结局；有时候，明知没路了，却还在前进，因为习惯了。

34.同样的一瓶饮料，便利店里2块钱，五星饭店里60块，很多的时候，一个人的价值取决于所在的位置。

35.每个人出生的时候都是原创，可悲的是很多人渐渐都成了盗版。

36.真坏人并不可怕，可怕的是假好人。

37.浪漫是一袭美丽的晚礼服，但你不能一天到晚都穿着它。

38.把一切平凡的事做好即不平凡，把一切简单的事做好即不简单。

39.把不忙不闲的工作做的出色，把不咸不淡的生活过得精彩。

40.情侣间最矛盾的地方就是幻想彼此的未来，却惦记着对方的过去。

41.忙碌是一种幸福，让我们没时间体会痛苦；奔波是一种快乐，让我们真实地感受生活；疲惫是一种享受，让我们无暇空虚。旗山家园

42.理想很丰满，现实很骨感。

43.女人吻男人是一种幸福，男人吻女人是一种口福。

44.爱情永远比婚姻圣洁，婚姻永远比爱情实惠。

45.探索的旅程不在于发现新大陆，而在于培养新视角。

46.一个人能走多远，要看他有谁同行；一个人有多优秀，要看他有谁指点；一个人有多成功，要看他有谁相伴。

47.叹气是最浪费时间的事情，哭泣是最浪费力气的行径。

48.不是人人都能活的低调，可以低调的基础是随时都能高调。

49.谈恋爱就像剥洋葱，总有一层会让你流泪。

50.年轻时候，拍下许多照片，摆在客厅给别人看；等到老了，才明白照片是拍给自己看的。

51.就算不快乐也不要皱眉，因为你永远不知道谁会爱上你的笑容。

52.当大部分人都在关注你飞的高不高时，只有少部分人关心你飞的累不累，这就是友情。

53.绝口不提不是因为忘记，而是因为铭记。

54.让未来到来，让过去过去。。旗山论坛

55.微小的幸福就在身边，容易满足就是天堂。

56.成功有个副作用，就是以为过去的做法同样适应于将来。

57.天使之所以会飞，是因为她们把自己看得很轻……

58.试金可以用火，试女人可以用金，试男人可以用女人。

59.喜欢一个人，就是在一起很开心；爱一个人，就是即使不开心，也想在一起。

60.幽默就是一个人想哭的时候还有笑的兴致。

61.咖啡苦与甜，不在于怎么搅拌，而在于是否放糖；一段伤痛，不在于怎么忘记，而在于是否有勇气重新开始。

Nope I did not write this. :)

I saw this note at facebook, my friend pasted this,

and i thought the words are really meaningful and something worth pondering on.

How adorable

Hello sekai =)

Got up,

got a call from my aunt, saying there will be guests coming to my place tonight.

So, I had to clean up the house and do some house chores.

I was having a headache due a problem that I may be having.

Which hopefully it's not going to be true.

I know I may sound contradicting here, but 

THIS,
is not supposed to be here,
not even whispering it into your ears either.

Hahahaha. *Yeah go ahead and call me evil if you want to X)*

Anyway, after doing all the house chores,

everything seemed better.

As in, I felt like the old me, the March 2008 me,

when I first got to KL to further my studies at 

ICOM - International College of Music.

Everything was so simple, life didn't appear as hard as it seems now.

Things are getting complicated, and a lil out of hand especially nowadays.

But I'm doing my best, to be as simple as possible,

to know more things as possible, and to keep them all in my mind;

To remember what are the important things that I ought to remember,

to forget things that I should have kept behind my head;

To keep the right things for priorities.

To be simple as I used to be, and yet knowing more things than the old me

And, yeah, I felt so much better.

*Noted, I need a planner*

Till the night came, had our dinner by the dining table

and watched some "atashinchi".

The whole thing is so simple and nice.

A simple dinner 

and watch funny cartoons together

with your loved one

*cough* my Aunt Bibi,

it's just the way I like it, ordinary.

After the dinner, we both waited for the guests to come.

Before they came, I went to play some piano.

Haven't been playing it for a while, it was all good.

Although, the things I played were quite similar.

Can't help with it, right. 

This always happens whenever you played some nice piece, and apparently you've got the nice melody or the chord progressions stuck in your head, so you end up playing music with the familiar tunes.

So yeah. Hahaha!

Then, the guests came.

::  From left : Pastor Liew, Zhi En and Mrs. Liew.  ::

He looked so happy

and

he was really happy when he saw both his parents in the frame.

hahahaha.

Pastor Liew, his wife and their adorable son, Zhi En!

*sorry I don't know how to spell out their names in English,

considering I'm not the social type and I don't mix around with the people at our church*

But what the heck! He's so adorable and so vivacious!

Everybody, meet Zhi En!

and all his cool poses.

He poses! 

::  He's so vivacious till you can't catch him  ::

::  Pastor Liew and Zhi En! ::

He's like what, four years old and he poses so naturally!

Haahahahahaha. Very cute child. His family is indeed so blessed.

They didn't stay for long.

However, Pastor Liew gave both me and my Aunt Bibi blessings, as well as Aunt Yvonne

who is going to have operation on her ovary problem next friday, I hope the operation will be successful and she will get well real soon. God Bless her.

They've made my night.

Look at how I smiled.

I miss it. X)

::  Grin!  ::

Till then,

Love you, world!

The beginning

Well hello world. =D

As what I proposed earlier,

this is it.

This is a brand new start, for my life.

Oh don't worry, my previous blog stays, and will always be there.

And why did I have to get a new blog?

Good question,

and the answer is simple.

I didn't want to delete all the blog posts there

and

I wanted a fresh start,

so this it.

A place, where I can really express my true feelings.

Well, eventually more and more people will get to know about this blog

and all the "true feelings" that I used to hide,

will no longer be hidden.

I used to keep a lot of thoughts and secrets

deep inside my mind.

There were people who tried to get through my head

and figure out what's really going on in my mind.

Some of them made halfway,

some of them didn't want to

(I don't blame them for not trying to understand me,

it's me who wasn't really affable),

while some of them, clearly don't think the same why I do, so they don't know how.

It's been a while for me to hide inside my shell

and

it's time for me to come out,

and speak out what I really think and feel.

In a nutshell,

to be the real me

and don't have the need to twist my words

to fit what other people think.

Welcome to my little world

as I'm about to spill every single thought in my head

from time to time.

If I may sound boring and my words are like science or history to you,

you can simply click the red circle • on your top left

(if you're using a mac)

or the red-colored box with a "x" in it [X] on your top right

(if you're using windows).

And of course,

help yourselves.

=D